Reposted from November 21, 2011
Recently I read a story about what happens on an annual basis at a local high school during homecoming week. On one day in particular called “freshmen beat down day,” the upperclassmen “haze” the freshmen in particular – calling them names, throwing ketchup and paint on them, saying they should go back to middle school, even physically assaulting them. The principal has tried in vain to stop it and so finally has cancelled the day for next year.
Unfortunately in our society hazing is prevalent in a variety of settings from schools to colleges to government organizations. I find it strange that this is seen as an acceptable way to bring the “freshies,” “plebes,” or whatever they are called into the fold.
Are there any rites of passage that do not involve abuse or violence? Why do those ahead feel the need to diminish those coming along behind? Perhaps we need some servant leaders to step up. Hazing is violence, no ifs, ands, or butts about it. Those in positions of power should be willing to use their power to lift others up.
Not beat them down.
As one superintendent said, “Our older kids should be helping our younger students succeed in school, not making them feel afraid.”
Well said, sir, well said.
Here is a great article about hazing, 6 common myths about hazing, and how to recognize it.
You can also check out the website http://www.stophazing.org/
Slow Mover 